I disassociated this week
Just wanted to let those of you who are interested know that I disassociated from my sorority this week. There was no major drama, no hurt feelings, and I still love the girls. I just didn't feel that my chapter lived up to the ideals that they set, and seeing as how this trend has continued for the majority of the time we've been on our campus, changing it isn't likely. There were too many things going on that could have our charter yanked, and I don't wish to be associated with the "trouble-causing chapter". I didn't see any form of sisterhood in our chapter, and everything that the active chapter committed to, service or social, is cancelled or done half @$$ed. Too many people have left, too many rules have been ignored or broken, and people simply haven't cared for at least six years. I really feel that I made the right decision, and I want ya'll to know that it is definitely possible to disassociate without being angry or bitter. I haven't had that great of an experience with this sorority, but since it isn't an NPC group, I'm still eligible to rush in the fall, and I may do that. I haven't given up on Greek life, but I know I can expect something better from another group. Don't know what group yet.... Wish me luck!
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