Leadership

- Are we speaking of that ability that develops first from the aptitude to follow & proactively support those in command? If so, then we should take a long hard look at the general Black American Youth. Until the general majority of blacks (especially the youth 18-30) in America develop the ability to FOLLOW and PROACTIVELY support those who are already in the "lead" then the young blood won't "take over" and provide Quality Leadership. Maybe we just need to re-examine who we are referring to as Leaders… Are we speaking of those with the TITLE of Leader?? ( Jesse Jackson, Colin Powell, blacks in any Community Affecting Org. with the title of President, Vice-President etc.) -- because I will be making that assumption as I proceed.
It's sad but, I consistently see a marked disability in my peers to simply follow instructions AND think "outside of the box." That is where the problem lies.
EXAMPLE
One of my office buddies wants soooo badly to be promoted to management. She has mad skills, does a decent job, gets her work done… The only thing is she will not do ANYTHING outside her general realm of responsibility... When she does "do her job" she has the wrong attitude - thinking current management mistreats her because they would like to see some proactive support from her. No one wants to hear what the sista' has to say because she is so busy talking about what's WRONG in the department. I sat in on a staff meeting and she talked so badly about the status of a current project -- for so long -- that we never got to hear how she wanted to improve it. She had a proposal prepared -- but her attitude was shot to the curb.
I can correlate her situation to the general state of leadership in Black America:
-We have leaders who need support and new ideas
-We have young blood with excellent credentials and ideas
-We DON'T have the general attitude that goes along with all of that
Therefore, we lack the "quality" of leadership you see in other 'races' and establishments…
I stress the term GENERAL STATE here, because my opinions do not apply to every single Black American/Organization.
Until the Black youth in America decides that they are willing to follow, consistently support, and PROACTIVELY support (as 'Dexter' pointed out) -- we cannot lead. Maybe our current leaders would feel more comfortable "stepping out" of their roles and letting the youth take over if we would SUPPORT them WITH our ideas (not just attendance to meetings, and complaints)…
Right now, we have to ACT. The TITLE of Leader can come later. As I said, qualified Leadership begins while you are following with proactive support. I realize that opposition may come with presenting new ideas… However, we have to move.
For example if the current leader of an Org. says he likes the idea that someone presented for a new program, but won't come up off the funds, then a proposal to obtain the funds should be prepared. Allocate the support of peers, respectfully present ideas, and show the HNIC that there IS support, effort, and a positive outcome on the other side. We have to SHOW that we only want what's best for our Organizations, let the HNIC (with the poor leadership skills) remain in their "position." That is all they have, "position"… When the next election for the Org. comes around (whatever it may be), and everyone sees how young-Mr./Ms. so-&-so pioneered this-that-or-the-other program then we will get some "new blood." Similarly, if the Org. ALREADY has good programs in place… do what needs to be done to "spruce" that project up. Many times, that could just mean getting butts in gear to WORK…
It is going to be a long haul. It may be the next generation before we honestly see any improvement in our Community Leadership as a whole. Maybe our children will have the correct mindset a lot sooner than we got it. It is almost too late for us (18-30) to get that type of mindset going across the nation. We have to wait our turn, and in turn, do what we can and raise our children to know how to follow so that they may lead at 18-30… We will be willing to let them lead when their time comes, right??
I understand that some of my peers (myself included) are currently doing what needs to be done to be/get some QUALIFIED blacks running thangs… Nevertheless (and quite obviously), at this time it is not enough. (Although we DO have Harold Ford Jr. in Congress -- THAT'S MY BOY!!!!!)
BTW - Take these words for what they are -- my opinion.
I will wrap it up here…
SisterFriend 'Vella, from around da' way.