What do you do when you can't stand your boyfriend's little?
Okay, this is really bugging me and I was hoping you all could help me on this. *sigh*
Well, J is D's very first little....it started out great even...I became pretty close w/him beforehand and was pretty happy when I found out that he was going to be D's little. Pledging came and went and it's now the present. Lately every time I run into J he starts griping at me saying that I take up all of D's time w/him and his bro's. Let's see....I see a maximum of D for 3-4 hours during the week and maybe a day together (if we can find the time) on the weekends. We -both- commute to school and only have 1 class together (we're both Education majors) in which we sit on opposite sides of the room. D goes home at 4:30 to work at his dad's garage and then on thursday through saturday he works the late shift. Somehow....J doesn't understand he (D) can't spend every minute of his day w/him hanging out and etc. I mean...when he sees me and D together he's all nice and whatnot but when he catches me alone he's a complete pain and very very rude. I've finally told D about this the other day and he's pretty ticked about it. He's going to talk to him about the situation especially when the statement of, "I can't wait til pledging starts then we can get you away from him.." Umm...okay...I was the one telling him when the activites were going to be (when the other guys couldn't get ahold of him) and bringing him extra clothes when he had to stay overnight. Yeah..and I'm also the one who made your first letter shirt and got you a TKE-themed present after you got in. *grr* And yeah..when D said, "I only wish I was spending as much time w/you as he says.." Sure...I'm just taking over everything.
I'm sorry this is so long but this is really irritating me. I mean..heck..I was good friends w/him before-during-and shortly thereafter he got in. It feels like I lost a bud and all on top of that.
Anyone have this happen to you also?
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