Hmm . . .

[Olivia_396]

I might be AKA, I might be DST
But after what I went through on line
I HATE my sorority
Would you like to talk over a cup of tea?
My damn sorors degraded and humiliated me
Red and white or pink and green
whatever the case, crossing those sands made me Mean

[Poplife]

I'm so sorry you came in under some fools...
Degradation?? Humiliation?? That's not cool...
You're filled with anger, and that's not good
Sororities should equal Sisterhood

[Finer Woman10-A-91]

This must be a joke...if it is not, might I suggest you talk to your sorors offline.

Originally posted by Olivia_396:
I might be AKA, I might be DST
But after what I went through on line
I HATE my sorority
Would you like to talk over a cup of tea?
My damn sorors degraded and humiliated me
Red and white or pink and green
whatever the case, crossing those sands made me Mean

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Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated...Every Finer Woman's Dream!

[dstbrat]

relax, relate, RELEASE!

-whitley gilbert

[Serenity]

Ooooooh, Dstbrat: You brought back some MEMORIES with that quote!

Olivia-396: I really and truly don't know what to say. I hope you can one day let go of the anger (it will take time) and find it in your heart to contribute positively to your organization. However, that's a decision you have to make on your own.

Good Luck!

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Sigma Lambda Upsilon: Hasta La Muerte!

[This message has been edited by Serenity (edited June 18, 2000).]

[mgdzkm433]

If this is the case, you need to turn them into their nationals. They will recieve a punishment they deserve.

[AKAtude]

I think she is just trying to start more drama. DSTbrat, that was a good one! I agree.

[Olivia_396]

Originally posted by AKAtude:
I think she is just trying to start more drama. DSTbrat, that was a good one! I agree.

Oh no, Soror, this is a very serious matter.

[AKAtude]

Well, then if it is a serious matter then you should take appropriate action. There is nothing that we can do to assist you here. So, what is the point?

Obviously, you are looking for attention and or want to bring more negativity to the forum. You are truly immature and need to grow up.

If you had dignity and respect for yourself to begin with, then no one can degrade or humiliate you unless you allow them to.


[This message has been edited by AKAtude (edited June 19, 2000).]

[ZetaAce]

I agree with AKAtude. You should really bring this situation up with your Sorors instead of putting this information on a public board for the world to read. Maybe one of them can help you with your bitterness about your process and help you overcome it. That's what true sisterhood is about and I am sure they will be there for you. Don't let a few bad apples spoil the bunch.

ZetaAce

I agree with AKAtude and Zeta Ace. This is something that needs to be discussed with those directly involved. I suggest you practice discretion with your problem because if you posted it here, you probably have told others and posted it on other websites.

mgdzkm433- the one thing about her turning "sorors" in to the national headquarters, is she may face disciplinary actions herself for allowing these things to happen and not reporting them.

[This message has been edited by c&c1913 (edited June 19, 2000).]

[prettygyrl]

OLIVIA IF SOMETHING BAD REALLY DID HAPPEN TO YOU THEN I AM SORRY YOU ALLOWED YOURSELF TO BE PUT THROUGH THAT. YOU REFERRED TO ONE OF THESE LADIES AS "SOROR" SO ONE WOULD HAVE TO THINK THAT YOU OBVIOUSLY WENT THROUGH THE ENTIRE PROCESS AND CROSSED. IF IT WAS AS BAD AND SERIOUS AS YOU CLAIMED THEN WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST DROP? EVERYONE IS RIGHT YOU SHOULD DEF TAKE IT UP WITH THOSE THAT YOU HAD THE PROBLEM WITH. I DO NOT KNOW ABOUT REPORTING THOUGH CAUSE LIKE C&C SAID YOU WENT THROUGH IT AND YOU PARTICIPATED SO YOU WOULD PROBABLY GET IN TROUBLE TOO. THIS PUBLIC FORUM IS REALLY NOT THE PLACE TO DISCUSS SOMETHING SO PERSONAL, ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU ALLOWED THE NAME OF THE ORG TO COMEOUT ALSO. THIS IS YOU AND YOUR ORGS PERSONAL BUSINESS. IF YOU LET SOME PEOPLE DEGRADE AND HUMILIATE YOU THEN YOU ARE TO BLAME ALSO DON'T YOU THINK? WELL I JUST WANTED TO SAY MY 10.22 CENTS.

[AKAtude]

Just one more thing, please do not assume that this person really was really initiated. I do not consider this person my soror regardless of what she says. I've seen this same scenario played out on other websites and the end result is usually the same. The person making such claims ends up being nothing more than a perp or a hater attempting to stir up something. I'm glad that most people agree with my previous comments.

By the way, has anyone noticed the icon Olivia chose to use when posting this message? It seems a bit odd that someone with such an experience would choose that face to represent her post.

[This message has been edited by AKAtude (edited June 19, 2000).]

Olivia_396,
Assuming that this is serious and not a joke post, what is it that you would like us to do about it? I think this is something that you should report to your National Headquarters. We can't help you here! Are you looking for a sounding board, advice? What exactly are looking for?

[Salience]

1: I don't believe she is a sorority member because she would handle her business among her sisters and trot out some childish rhyme.

2: it's probably another ploy to start controversy

3: Debbie Allen first uttered that melodic phrase, in her role as Whitley's counselor

4: Yeah, I've got waaay too much time on my hands tonight

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