Let me know

[nugget]

I am junior in college in Alabama and I am very interested in joining your fraternity. I have talked to older members of your fraternity and they did not help me much probably because they are very successful men (doctors, lawyers, etc..) and they didn't have much time. One of them is very close to me almost like a father. I was wandering if anyone out there can give me some advise as the new school year is fastly approaching. Any responses would be good.

[frostbyte]

Some advice that was given to me, when I was still an aspirant.

Make sure that it is in your heart, and not the result of influence from family or friends. Also concentrate on your grades and make sure you had handled your business academically. Also I recommend that you closely examine the chapter on your campus, because even though we are a national organization every chapter has it's own tendecies and characteristics. If you are accepted into the fraternity and that chapter these are the men that you will be around a majority of your time, so make sure that you can see yourself with these people. If you haven't already examine the national website. Any other questions can be directed to me personally jrogers9@utk.edu

Frostbyte....so cold it hurts

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Pain is temporary, but Pride is forever

[nugget]

Originally posted by frostbyte:
Some advice that was given to me, when I was still an aspirant.

Make sure that it is in your heart, and not the result of influence from family or friends. Also concentrate on your grades and make sure you had handled your business academically. Also I recommend that you closely examine the chapter on your campus, because even though we are a national organization every chapter has it's own tendecies and characteristics. If you are accepted into the fraternity and that chapter these are the men that you will be around a majority of your time, so make sure that you can see yourself with these people. If you haven't already examine the national website. Any other questions can be directed to me personally jrogers9@utk.edu

Frostbyte....so cold it hurts

Thanks for being straight up with me Frostbyte. I will be sure to do e-mail you.
Thanks

[Professor]

I always suggest reading the frat's history book. Best of Luck!