Who enjoys it more?

librasoul22 · #1 03-09-2003, 05:44 PM

SEX, that is...guys or girls?

I say girls...I will explain later.

KSigkid · #2 03-09-2003, 06:08 PM

I'm honestly surprised James wasn't the first to reply to this thread.

SuperSister · #3 03-09-2003, 06:10 PM

I would have to say that guys front like they enjoy it more, but that females actually enjoy it more.

Lady Pi Phi · #4 03-09-2003, 07:03 PM

I really think it depends on the individual person, not their gender.

I also think it depends on the partner too. I'm sure there are times that sex was just great and there were times that the sex was, well...just bad.

I don't think one gender enjoys it more than the other, but I do think women have a harder time expressing the fact they thye enjoy sex.

Jadey28 · #5 03-09-2003, 07:31 PM

My boyfriend says it seems like women enjoy sex more, but I think that men enjoy sex just as much. I also think that the person, mood, and the feelings also make sex much better.

XOMichelle · #6 03-09-2003, 09:35 PM

Hmm.. Yeah it's def person AND partner dependent. But i have to say, sex is one of my favorite things (it's a wonder it didn't make the song).
-M

Betarulz! · #7 03-09-2003, 10:20 PM

I think guys because we think about it so much, and you never hear of a guy with holding it from a girl.

If girls enjoy it so much, it would be easier to get some...

As for the actual deed, it's a person thing (sometimes even a time thing) as I've had sex that wasn't so great and some that was (even from the same person).

MoxieGrrl · #8 03-09-2003, 11:47 PM

If we are talking a good experience with a decent partner, women enjoy sex more.

I think men enjoy it more in general.

starang21 · #9 03-10-2003, 12:37 AM

sheeeiiiitt, women by far enjoy sex a whole lot more. at least in my experience, anyway. i'm cool with it, but i'm one of them cats who take pride in pleasing a woman.

Munchkin03 · #10 03-10-2003, 12:44 AM

I think women enjoy it more, we're just not conditioned to talk about enjoying sex that much, whereas for men it's more accepted. By "enjoy", I mean enjoy the feelings, both emotionally and physically that are invoked and not necessarily having an orgasm. But, if you want to take it in that way, women are more likely than men to be multiorgasmic, so I guess we would enjoy it more in that way, too...

sugar and spice · #11 03-10-2003, 01:28 AM

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Originally posted by MoxieGrrl
If we are talking a good experience with a decent partner, women enjoy sex more.

I think men enjoy it more in general.

I agree. I think women have the potential to enjoy it more, but in general men enjoy it more. Women's experiences are more likely to be anywhere on the scale from terrible to mind-blowingly wonderful, whereas men tend to have generally positive experiences more often.

SATX*APhi · #12 03-10-2003, 04:59 AM

I definitely thing girls enjoy it more, but many guys don't know how to "get her" to enjoy it. So many guys just don't know. When a girl finds a partner who can "allow" her to enjoy it, she's got it in the bag.

But when thinking of numbers, guys enjoy it more, of course.

1savvydiva · #13 03-10-2003, 05:41 AM

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Originally posted by starang21
sheeeiiiitt, women by far enjoy sex a whole lot more. at least in my experience, anyway. i'm cool with it, but i'm one of them cats who take pride in pleasing a woman.

You beat me to the punch! I was going to say that women enjoy sex a lot more, for the fact that most men DO get off on making a womam...hmm....shudder.

Most men will walk around like King Rooster if they know they 'got you there'! I think that women enjoy the experience more because it is all inclusive, we enjoy it on so many different levels. While men are very visual, women take in the whole experience...or that's what I've heard

ilovemyglo · #14 03-10-2003, 11:07 AM

Depends on the guy
Minute man- he does
After five minutes, Girl does.

starang21 · #15 03-10-2003, 11:58 AM

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Originally posted by 1savvydiva
You beat me to the punch! I was going to say that women enjoy sex a lot more, for the fact that most men DO get off on making a womam...hmm....shudder. Most men will walk around like King Rooster if they know they 'got you there'! I think that women enjoy the experience more because it is all inclusive, we enjoy it on so many different levels. While men are very visual, women take in the whole experience...or that's what I've heard

shudder isn't the half of it. i'm trying make her toes curl, her back twist, and her eyes roll into the back of her head

. that's why i try to be good in ALL facets of it. but some fellas are just trying to get theirs and call it a day.