the age of a man

[Contact]

After several lousy experiences with men aged 30+, I have decided that from now on I will only have sex with guys under the age of 30.

Why?

They are more passionate, warm, enthusiastic, and respectful.

Older guys who are single (or divorced) tend to take women for granted, are jaded about relationships, and are afraid of getting emotionally involved.

Any experiences to share?

[33girl]

sweetie, you just aren't finding the right men.

[AlphaSigLana]

Maybe your problem is that you are sleeping with men instead of getting to know them?! Saying that you will only have sex with men under 30 didn't sound very good and if you act like that then yeah men aren't going to seek a relationship or get their emotions involved.

[KillarneyRose]

I have to agree with 33Girl; I don't think you've found the right 30+ men. My husband (mid thirties) is all those things you mentioned. Also, even when I was in my early twenties, my best dating experiences were with men over 30. I just don't think you should rule anyone out due to age; jerks come in all ages!

[Optimist Prime]

I'm 21

[BabyBlue91]

KillarneyRose hit the nail on the head. Jerks come in all age ranges. My King Jerk was 28 when I met him at 20. Every woman I knew told me, "If a man can't find a woman his own age, something's wrong with him!" They were too right.

[valkyrie]

Originally posted by Contact

They are more passionate, warm, enthusiastic, and respectful.

I have to agree with you. I like younger guys, but I haven't necessarily been able to put my finger on why. It's not that I have a problem with older guys, but they just don't really appeal to me. Younger guys (and I'm a bit older than college age ) are more fun, spontaneous and I relate to them better. And they have more, um, energy.

[amycat412]

As Killarney Rose stated, there are jerks and wonderful men of ALL ages.

The biggest jerk I've been involved with was 25 when I was 30. My Lawd he was a mess.

The next creepiest wass 37 to my 31. Sheesh, The Pedophiile iis hiis nickname, I don't think I need to say anything else.

It depends on the INDIVIDUAL, not the age.


EDITED TO ADD: tho, I did stop dating men born under the sign Aquarius for awhile--seemed i'd met too many of them who were off their rockers, including BOTH the men i mention above. LOL

Of course, the longest and Until i met mr amycat, the best relationnship i ever had was also w an aquariian, so go fiigure.

P.s. Dell is sending me a new keyboard for my laptop--soon my double letter misspellings will stop!