Ponder this.....

[Sjones]

Hi all! I just read a heartfelt post about sisterhood and I have something to ask all of you. Lets say that back during your pledge period, you had met some really swell chicks. Many sisters feel that period of bonding was more intense than at any other time in their college years. Deep friendships are formed, secrets are shared and wonderful memories are made.

As you know, pledges attend every function aside of sister meetings. They can (in some situations) even reside in the house/suite with initiated sisters where seemingly close ties are formed on the fast track.
Now, lets say one or two of these cool chicks unfortunatly did not make it through to initiation for some reason. Do you swiftly cut her off entirely? Would you speak to her when you saw her on campus?

Now...a bit later in life...Would you help her get a great job if you were in a position to do so...like at your company...give her a good reference?

If her child fell ill and she needed help like donations for cancer treatments not covered by insurance, would you give if you could afford it and knew where to send the check?

Would you provide the simple kindness of a phone call or card when she had a death in her immediate family?

I realize these questions will seem like an insult to to most of you. They are not meant as such in any way. Thanks in advance for your feedback and have a lovely day!

PS- guys feel free to reply regarding your experiences in this area.
Thanks again!