Never say never

Dionysus · #1 10-06-2002, 11:22 PM

I said that I would never ask for "guy" advice on here.
Here goes:

Like some girls I seem to attract losers, despite that I'm NOT one myself. Well, I met guy #1 at our school carnival about a month ago. Just by looking at him, I thought this guy is at least half way decent. He got me to join his organization. I also met guy #2 at this carnival, I was much more attracted to him (more than decent) and I got him to join one of my organizations.

So for the last month I've been having contact with both guys at least once a week. Guy #1 is just decent, guy #2 I really dig. #1 has invited me to do things with him and a date or two, I turned down all of them! Though guy #2 who I like more has showed some interest in the beginning, currently he's been giving me the cold shoulder.

#1 has invited me to another party again! Also I feel that I can be myself around him and totally accept me, unlike #2. Now that's a turn on to me!

Should I take a "shot" at this guy, finally a DECENT guy who LIKES me more than I like him? Or aim higher for GREAT guy (#2) that I like HIM maybe more than he likes me?

Mom says I'm crazy not to give #1 a chance.

three2tango · #2 10-06-2002, 11:26 PM

I think you have your answer within the post. It is very plain to me. Give him a chance.

chideltjen · #3 10-07-2002, 12:18 AM

guy 2 sounds like the men i have dated recently.

go for guy 1... if it doesn't work out, at least you had fun going out to parties with him and you figure out what your type is and what isn't.

sororitygirl2 · #4 10-07-2002, 12:44 PM

I am not a guy, but I will answer anyway...

Why limit yourself? You are not committed to one or the other by just hanging out or going on a date or two... Go ahead and accept Guy #1's invitations, get to know him and maybe you'll like what you see. Also, go ahead and pursue Guy #2 by asking him out to coffee or something casual and see what's there.