Don't worry everything will fall into place! Don't go crazy on us!
I would suggest starting with what you have and go from there. I think the first thing you need to do is have a first event in mind, then find a few women, and then PUBLICITY. Once you get a group of women together you can go from there and plan future events.
These are my suggestions as far as how to start and find women. Invest a lot of time in the beginning as far as finding women, then it will make things easier as you go forward in my opinion, because then they can help you with other things and help find other women.
* Have some kind of first "event" in mind. That way when you're talking to women you can actually invite them to something. I'd make it a free and casual event to get women interested. A casual get together at your home may be a good way to start. And let women bring friends/spouses/etc if they're uncomfortable coming alone.
* IHQ list: Call & email everyone you can and ask them about other Alpha Gams in the area. About 90% of the time I got an answering machine so I usually said something like "Hi, this is Lisa, I'm an Alpha Gam alum here in Birmingham. I'm in the process of restarting the Birmingham Junior Circle here in the area which is an alum group for young Alpha Gam alums. I was calling to see if you would be interested or if you knew of other alums in the area that may be interested. We're having a casual get together at my home on xxxx. We'd love for you to come. If you're interested or have any questions please call me at xxx or email me at xxxx". The email part really worked! A lot of women emailed me!
*Do some research. Use the addresses and names you have and search on the internet. There's a few good sites: infospace.com, etc that you can do reverse lookups. Lookup the address and see if the names match and then you can get the phone numbers. If you think it's the parent's address call them anyhow, and they can tell you if their daughter is still in the area or maybe she has friends in the area. If the women have married & spouse names search for those.
*Contact all the collegiate chapters and alumnae groups in your state and surrounding areas, by email/mail/etc. Introduce yourself and ask them if they know of any alums in your area. And ask them to put your name & contact info in any of their newsletters that they send out.
*local newspapers- some have free classifieds or "social" sections that you can advertise, send pictures and event info, etc. This may be a "southern" thing, but the newspapers down here also put sorority/fraternity info about the bride and groom.
*internet - I would really suggest spending a little time creating a website and register it with some of the search engines. it doesn't have to be anything fancy or elaborate.
www.geocities.com is a good free one and if you're not an internet expert I think they have "wizards" to help create one. Put your email and contact info on alphagam.net, and IHQs website.
*Other sorority/fraternity groups - Try contacting other alumnae groups in your area. It's a great way to get ideas as far as what they're doing and you can pass along your contact info. Their members probably have friends from other greek organizations and they may know some Alpha Gams. And maybe you can have an event with them at some point. Try looking at other sorority websites for help too. Some other groups have alumnae reports and alumnae sections that are helpful to get ideas.
As you start finding women that are interested it may start to "snowball" because they'll tell their friends, and then they will tell their friends, etc. It will get easier, don't worry!
Good Luck!
Lisa