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Old 08-29-2002, 02:24 PM
IowaHawkeye IowaHawkeye is offline
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UI senior, Phi Kappa Psi dies of colon cancer

I knew Mike and am very good friends with many of his brothers - its so sad to lose him...

UI senior, 21, dies of colon cancer

By Bridget Frodyma

The symptoms came just before finals week last spring. Doctors first thought the abdominal cramps were stress-related, and, later appendicitis.

But it was colon-recto cancer that quickly paralyzed Michael Junker's vocal cords and left the UI senior weak. On Tuesday, he died at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Illinois at age 21— extremely young to suffer from the illness.

"The chances of him getting colon-recto cancer is like winning the lottery, but reversed," said his uncle, David Gould.

Friends remembered Junker Wednesday as having a dry sense of humor, compassion, devotion, and a love for sports, art — and gyros. Nobody thought he would go so quickly.

"He knew cancer would be something he'd have to live with … the chemo didn't work, and it was one of those things where he was running out of options," Gould said. "A couple weeks ago, when I was visiting him, he was anxious and talking about coming back to campus. He wanted to know about his fraternity … those were the people he really cared about."

Junker majored in English and journalism, and he planned to graduate in May 2003. An active student, he was the director, assistant educator, and chaplain of his fraternity, Phi Kappa Psi. Junker was also a member of RiverFest's executive council.

Junker established his most valuable friendships in the fraternity.

"He was one of the few guys I've ever met that had the same sense of humor as me," said UI senior Bill Feehan, a friend. "It was one of those feelings where you know he's going to be your best friend."

Feehan crowded into Junker's hospital room on Aug. 19 along with 17 fraternity brothers.

"I know for sure it made his day, maybe his summer," said fraternity brother and UI senior Tim Ahlers. "He said his friends back here meant the world to him."

Junker, who leaves behind both parents and a sister, will be buried in Lansing, Ill., on Saturday at 10 a.m.

That's less than a year after he waited for hours with a group of 26 Hawkeye basketball fans to secure season tickets in the Hawks Nest. The group was second in line. To a Daily Iowan reporter, Junker kidded that "it's the price you pay" for not having a social life.

"Mike had an off-beat sense of humor," said Gould, who bonded over lunch with Junker once a week before the illness. "We'd watch 'The Simpons' together … he loved 'The Simpsons.' "

Junkers' interests also included the fine arts, and he was intrigued with contemporary music. While working at the UI art library, he often educated himself about different artwork. He had applied to write about the arts for The Daily Iowan.

"He was just a memorable young man," said Judy Lohr, a faculty adviser for the student newspaper at Thornton Fractional South High School in Lansing, where Junker had worked.

Lohr remembers his dry sense of humor, maturity, leadership style, and "ability to analyze a situation in a crisis."

Feehan remembers a lighter side of Junker.

"Our favorite thing to eat was gyros. Sometimes we had them for breakfast, lunch, and dinner," Feehan said. "I'm happy that the last two gyros he got to eat I got to eat with him."

E-mail DI reporter Bridget Frodyma at:
bridget-frodyma@uiowa.edu
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Old 08-29-2002, 04:09 PM
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I Hawk, my heart goes out to you and Junkers Brothers!

What a sad state it is to lose a young man so early in life!!!

Hang in there as never easy to lose someone who is close to you!
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Old 08-29-2002, 06:47 PM
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i'm really sorry about your loss, and its always saddening when a brother is lost. i dont know what i would do if someone from my chapter died...i got emotional reading about brother mike.
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Old 08-29-2002, 06:55 PM
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It's so sad to hear about someone so young being lost to cancer. Yet, it is becoming more and more commone everyday
My prayers are with his family.

I guess when I first read this article I was kind of shocked, but as I began to read on things started to sink in.

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I guess the reason that this hit me so close is because a few short weeks ago I was diagnosed with lung cancer (as everyone wonders what will happen to this guy next). It has certainly been a very rough year and just when I think I'm in the clear, it all comes crashing right back down. But to be honest I've tried not to think about it all the time and that has helped somewhat. I feel I've actually been pretty cheery and upbeat about things lately. Yet, as I write this I am thinking about it more and more because almost nobody knows about it, I don't know how to tell people, if I should tell people, what do I say? I just don't want to think about it.

Maybe there is a reason things happen to people? Maybe there is a reason I keep getting dealt the losing hand?
I just haven't thought about it much because I am trying to focus on the present and I'm trying to focus on those people that I trust and love. I want to be able to do everything I can with my time, and when school starts, I will still go, I will still be very active in my fraternity, and I will start volunteering at the campus hospital, helping young children that have cancer (since we are w/o a Dance Marathon and such).

What do I do? Who knows...I don't know much about it and I havent' really considered my options, whatever they might be...
Will I do chemo, more than likely no, I've seen what it does and I don't know if I could go through something like that. Maybe I'm just at that point of accepting the things that keep happening to me because they are part of some bigger "plan."

Sorry for the emotional rant,

I'll pray for Mike and his family, friends and fraternity brothers.

Blaine
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Old 08-29-2002, 11:49 PM
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Blaine,
So, so sorry to hear about your news! (I honestly am having a hard time knowing what to say). While I don't want to sound like this is the end for you, I do want you to focus on what YOU want. . .as my husband says, "Follow your bliss". If we do that, other things seem to fall into place. My prayers are with you. . .

My prayers are also with Michael Junkers friends and family. I firmly believe that we all have a purpose here. . .some are easier to recognize than others. Some have more than one purpose. The gifts he gave others will live on. . .

I'm just at a loss right now. . .
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Old 08-30-2002, 12:00 AM
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I have been so emotional lately and reading this story and also Blaine's posts -it just makes me so sad. It just seem sometimes life isn't fair but I know you can't dwell on that. I keep telling myself and other people that you have to make the most of the time you have here on earth (though I feel I don't always follow my own advice).

Blaine,

I am praying for you and your family.

Karen
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Old 08-30-2002, 07:43 AM
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Blain, I wish you didn't have to go through this. I too can't find the words to express my feelings. My prayers are for you and your healing.
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Old 08-30-2002, 09:01 AM
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Blaine,
I am sorry to hear about your health. You need to be sure to focus on the positive and let your friends and family know what is going on. I'm sure that a positive outlook and the love and support you receive from your friends and family can play a big role for a quick recovery. Explore your options treatment-wise. Look into holistic medicine as well as conventional medicine. Theres no harm in covering all your options. I wish you lots of luck and will keep you in my thoughts.
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Old 08-30-2002, 06:19 PM
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Blaine,

Bro, what words could I possibly say that would help? I dont know that any exist? I am so sorry for your troubles. You have to do what you feel is right, but I also strongly encourage you to explore all options, and know that you are cared about. A lot. Take care and please keep us informed of your status so we can keep you in our prayers.

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Old 08-31-2002, 01:11 AM
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So sad to lose a brother so young...

What is there to say??? All we can do is pray that those loved ones that Michael left behind can find some comfort in knowing that he was able to spread a lot of love in such a short amount of time...

Even though I never met Michael, he was indeed my brother, and therefore I grieve along with those who knew and loved him...

CARPE DIEM-Sieze the Day!!!

Tomorrow is promised to no one...
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Old 08-31-2002, 10:51 AM
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iowahawkeye- so sad to hear about your brother- my condolences and sympathies to the family and friends...

blaine.. best of luck. my little sister was diagnosted iwth intestinal cancer when she was 11, and is now 14.. after a few surgeries and some chemo she is better- not cured- but better. stay strong and know you have the support of everyone you come across.
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Old 08-31-2002, 10:41 PM
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My sincerest condolences. My heart goes out to his family, friends and brothers. I lost my grandmother (who raised me) to colon cancer 4 years ago today. I miss her dearly...

Damasa (Blaine) never give up the fight. You can beat it...
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