What does "Being too cool" mean?

[Koss28]

What does "Being too cool" mean? One of my partners at work was talking to me yesterday and said a woman he had been dating for the last couple of months informed him she couldn't continue to date him any longer because he was just too cool for her. He couldn't grasp what she meant by that. Was it because he had lots of friends or was layed back with everybody or because his life was in order or because her life wasn't in order? I don't know. All I know is that's the first time I've ever heard a woman stop dating a man because he was too cool. I thought that's what women wanted. Comments?

If ask me, it sounds like she was making an excuse (and a very lame one), to break up with him.

[candygirl]

Who knows what she meant by that statement. It could be any of the reasons you've given. I think your friend needs to ask the female in question for clarification.

[Lizanabavi]

Originally posted by Koss28
What does "Being too cool" mean? One of my partners at work was talking to me yesterday and said a woman he had been dating for the last couple of months informed him she couldn't continue to date him any longer because he was just too cool for her. He couldn't grasp what she meant by that. Was it because he had lots of friends or was layed back with everybody or because his life was in order or because her life wasn't in order? I don't know. All I know is that's the first time I've ever heard a woman stop dating a man because he was too cool. I thought that's what women wanted. Comments?

It wouldn't matter if he was "too cool" or a "Vivrant Thing". This young lady has made it clear that she does not want him. By what you have written about her, she is immature and does not know how to treat people.

But don't worry- she will reap the consequences of her actions- all she has to do is just "keep living". That is a principle that can be looked upon in a secular or spiritual realm. It's called Karma; the type of energy one puts out, is what they will get back in return.

This young man needs to count this as a blessing in disguise, for he has been spared heartache unforseen. It didn't work out between them because it wasn't meant to be. All he needs to do, is to continue being who he is, and he will meet a woman who will not mind getting a whiff of "cool" heir.

[strobelitehoney]

Originally posted by kissy324
If ask me, it sounds like she was making an excuse (and a very lame one), to break up with him.

Even I would've preferred her to use the famous

"it's not YOU it's ME" Line,

rather than that Lame mess.

[korkscru]

Originally posted by kissy324
If ask me, it sounds like she was making an excuse (and a very lame one), to break up with him.

MY thoughts exactly. Either she just made up this excuse to cut ties with him OR...she was being sarcastic for some reason or another. I mean, I understand that from THIS point, it looks as if her excuse is kinda lame, to say the least. However, on the other hand, she COULD have meant that this guy gave the impression the he was "all of that" or that he acts one way whenever he's alone with her and another way whenever the "boyz" are around. I don't know. But what I DO know is that she saw a need to "exit" as fast as she could using whatever excuse necessary. So, MAYBE, just MAYBE, there's a little MORE to the story than what your boy is telling.