Ok so I am not exactly sure what I should do. I work with this girl who is going to be a freshman at my school and she is planning on going through rush this fall. I can not stand her. She is one of the rudest most self centered girls I have ever meet in my life. I have seen her act in such ways which is absolutly horrific. She does not care about her friends and actually left a girl in Mexico so she could go home with a guy she just met, and she felt no remorse her friend had to walk to the border about 5 miles by herself. She was actually mad that her friend was not happy the she met a guy. There is much worse stuff then that too, I just figured that was a good example with out getting really personal. When one of my friends, who is in a different sorority then mine met her she felt the exact same way I do about this girl and my friend was glad that she met her before rush so her house can know to look out for this girl I work with.
Ok so here is my question. Both my friend and I have informed our houses about this girl so we know to look out for her during rush. We just do not know if we should let some of the other sororities on campus know so they can look out for her as well. I just would not want any house to have to deal with her drama and rudeness she will bring in. I just do not know if I should tell them what I know, so they can make an infomed decision and then if they let her in, not be suprised when she causes problems or should I just let them find out for themselves. I have a lot of friends in the other houses who I care about deeply and i would never want to see them hurt, and I know that if this girl is let in they will be hurt by her. Any advise what to do?
dggirly, I wish you would have been around for a certain woman we bid. LOL. It's sweet of you to be concerned for the other houses, not everyone would do that!
but seriously...I don't think that you can tell the other groups about her...that could be considered trash talking and might get your house a rush infraction. I think about all you can hope is that she lets the real her shine through.
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I agree with 33girl. There's only so much you can do. If you have very close friends in other houses you may be able to casually say something about this obnoxious girl you work with who's rushing but avoid starting a persuasive arguement on why they have to drop her too. After a little while you have to hope that she shoots herself in the foot somehow by being herself.
Also, based on your post I'm guessing this isn't the kind of girl who'd be happy to get a bid from anybody. Maybe after you and your friends house drop her first thing she'll get discouraged and drop out.
It's sweet of you to be concerned for the other houses, not everyone would do that!
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