hey ashley! keep your head up. it may not seem like it now, but things will get better. I eneded a two and a half year relationship about a year ago, and I've finally gotten over it. PM me if you want to talk! Hang in there
Girl, You can make it! I know how it is! My fiancee just ended our 9 month engagement (we'd known each other 4 years)...and previously I ended a 1 1/2 long relationship. It takes time and understanding. Just one word of advice...don't try to move on so fast. I did that and it doesn't get you anywhere because you'll just compare everyone and get all mushy over the ex!
Hootie, hang in there too! I know you ladies are strong enough. My friends really helped to take my mind off of everything I went through when I was in the similar breakup situation.