A Dilema

[princess781]

Ok, my birthday is coming up, and I have a problem. It is a tradition in my chapter to get a paddle charm engraved with our letters for your 21st birthday. Before I left school, 2 of my best friends and sisters bought me a paddle. Well, the other day, I got a card from my big, and inside was another paddle. What do I do? Who's paddle do I wear. The paddle from my friends means a lot more to me than the one from my big, because we were never very close. We had a falling out and my friends talked to my big before buying the paddle and she said she wasn't going to buy one for me, but I guess she did. Let me know what I should do!

Hey Princess,
Why don't u just wear both? Or u can alternate. I'm sure your friends and big would understand. But if it really gets to be a tough call. Don't wear any of them and just save them as memrobelia(?) yeah anyways... I hope that helps..
But if I were you I'd just wear both.

Get a paddle bracelet and chain to match using the paddles as charms. Be creative.