With other fraternities on campus, it comes down a lot to sports. We play football, basketball, softball, and other sports against the other fraternities on campus, and while it gets competitive as hell while we're playing, everyone ends up getting to know each other better. That way, when we're in the student union on Monday, or if a few guys are in the gym and see each other, there's that recognition, usually leading to B.S.'ing and, thus, better relations.
When it comes to sororities - that mostly comes down to one-on-one contact. Girls become friends with guys, or vice versa, get to know other members of the fraternity/sorority, and things kinda just grow out of that. We also help them with fundraisers, philanthropies, singing to little sisters, that type of deal.
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