This thread is not about the "P" word

[fatto]

Why do you feel the need to remove my very valid and timely question from your page? Is it because you are not comfortable adressing the topic? Do you not want to dicuss it? You don't see me suggesting that the A Phi A moderator remove all the relationship questions that yall start from our forum!

The "P" word, for me, is a very improtant part of becoming a member of a Greek orgainzation as I'm, sure some other members would agree. I think the answer is to publicly, and informatively address the topic rather than avoid it. It is the actions of individuals like yourself AKA2D that perpetuate the ignorance that aspirants are faced with when they seek knowledge prior to expressing their interest.

I have no qualms with discussing the way I was brought into the frat. Nor do I see the wrong in discussing what could have been done better. I'm sure there are some women that would like to know the truth!

[AKAtude]

Did I miss something? It seems as though this could have been handled via PM. If AKA2D was the moderator that deleted your post, I'm sure she had a good reason to do so. My guess is that the topic may have been discussed before. Did you do a search for previous threads? Just a thought.

Also, if the moderator of your forum feels any thread and/or post by someone outside of your fraternity is inappropriate, then I'm sure he would take the same action if he so chooses. We, as moderators and sorors that frequent this forum, made a collective decision a very long time ago among ourselves to stick to some basic rules regarding the discussion of various issues. It is possible this could have been one of them. If you feel strongly about discussing this particular issue, then maybe another forum may be the best avenue for you to pursue.

I trust the decision my soror made and as a co-moderator stand firmly beside her.

[AKA2D '91]

Originally posted by fatto
Why do you feel the need to remove my very valid and timely question from your page? Is it because you are not comfortable adressing the topic? Do you not want to dicuss it? You don't see me suggesting that the A Phi A moderator remove all the relationship questions that yall start from our forum!

The "P" word, for me, is a very improtant part of becoming a member of a Greek orgainzation as I'm, sure some other members would agree. I think the answer is to publicly, and informatively address the topic rather than avoid it. It is the actions of individuals like yourself AKA2D that perpetuate the ignorance that aspirants are faced with when they seek knowledge prior to expressing their interest.

I have no qualms with discussing the way I was brought into the frat. Nor do I see the wrong in discussing what could have been done better. I'm sure there are some women that would like to know the truth!

Oh, here's the infamous thread ...



Like I told you in the PM I sent you, which I did not have to do, you need to check the POW, a.k.a the Pearls of Wisdom. From there, you will see what we DO NOT discuss on THIS forum.

I respect other people's places and things. I make sure that I do not go to anyone else's place "OUT OF ORDER" regarding THEIR ORGANIZATION. Therefore, one will NOT have to DELETE, EDIT OR CLOSE my thread/topics.

You do not know what my stance is on a topic. You don't know ME or MY DEALINGS OR MY SITUATIONS, NOR what I DO OR DO NOT PERPETUATE. If you don't like how things are handled here or any place around here, too bad...

Cyberspace has alot of room out there for anyone to discuss ANYTHING!

BTW, I deleted the thread on my OWN free will. It was never suggested by anyone to remove.

Booooooooooooo!