Sorority Problems
I have this one sister who I just can't deal with anymore. And the hardest part of this whole situation is that we used to be really close (she was one of the people who made me feel most welcome when I came into chapter). The problem with her is that she acts so unsisterly. She tells secrets that other sisters have asked her not to, she talks about a lot of girls that she doesn't like in chapter, she is selfish, she is stubborn, she is snotty, and she messes around with so many guys that is has gotten to the point that people just use her for sex and EVERYONE in the other fraternities and sororities talks about it. Noone even seems to like her anymore. I want to talk to her about it, but whenever anyone tries to bring up something negative about her she snaps and acts like a bitch (sorry, but that is the only word that describes her). I just don't even know how to deal with this situation. I can't even trust her...she is constantly lying and making up stories to try to get people to think better of her. She just doesn't seem to understand that we are her sisters and we will accept her no matter what~we have tried telling her but she does not get the point. She never used to be like this when I just joined chapter (unless she always was, and I didn't know her well enough to realize it). And things have gotten worse with her when her cousin has joined our chapter. They are known as the two biggest snobs. When they are together, they do not talk to anyone else. I just hope none of you have to go through a situation like this. It is so hard to deal with, and it hurts because I used to be so close to her. Any advice???
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