Ok, just FYI, you are going to get slammed on here for lack of punctuation, capitalization, spelling errors, etc. I personally don't care as long as I can tell what you're trying to say, I'm just letting you know the kind of answers you're going to get.
Secondly, you can drop any time. Whether you can join another fraternity will depend on a few things. Since you are still a pledge and have not been initiated that is good in terms of dropping and joining another fraternity. However, I don't know which campus you are at. You have to be honest with yourself in regards to campus culture. Are you going to be seen as damaged goods? As the guy who dropped one fraternity? Do fraternity pledges often drop and join another group or is this going to be your only chance to be Greek? Pledges are often told that they are taking a risk dropping to join another group and would they rather take the chance to not be Greek. To repeat, I DO NOT KNOW your campus culture and only you can determine if you want to take this chance.
Personally, without knowing any details about the situation, I would suggest sticking it out as long as nothing horribly bad or offensive has happened. KEEP IN MIND THE BIGGER PICTURE. Seriously. Make it work!
*** I am in a sorority and understand that I may be out of my lane.
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