Lost...
I'm a new student this semester at Arizona state university. I knew right off the bat that I wanted to be in a sorority, so u decided to do spring recruitment even though only three chapters are recruiting. I went to the first chapters recruitment party, and within a few days I had accepted a bid from them without meeting ANY of the others. All the girls were so nice, but I realized on bid day that I really didn't mesh with them, and that the sorority wasn't for me, but at that point I was too polite to say no. This is a huge commitment, and I need to be fair to myself by picking the house that is best for me, and give them all a fair shot. I want to do fall recruitment, but I know if I drop now that I have to wait an entire year before I can accept another bid. This means that I will have to wait three semesters before I can do the fall recruit, and I just feel like I'm going to miss out on so much!! Is there any way around this?! I can't believe I acted so naively. Please help!!!
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