College Grad Looking for Help

[PhillyPhan]

Hey there! I don't know if anyone can help me but I'm looking to see if there's a chance.

I'm 32. I graduated from a college here in Philly -- I'd rather not say which one. We had a very active Greek Life when I was there. Unfortunately, I didn't join a frat. The friends I made early in school were all very much anti-frat (sort of the early template for hipsters). I always wanted to pledge, though, but never did for fear of losing these friends.

This was the biggest regret of my life. I've always regretted not following my heart and pledging. I could see the benefits of the brotherhoods and ties established back in college. And I can see it even now, since there are so many business ties connected to fraternity/sorority membership in the business world.

Does anyone have thoughts as to how I could rectify this? Obviously, I'm not going to relive Old School. But I'd very much like to try and get some of what I missed in my life. Could a non-member hang out at an alumni event or the like? I really would do anything to do something like that...