Sarah, you are too cool!
I have to disagree about the orgasm during intercourse thing not happening, though. The trick is that you have to be very, very close to orgasm before the intercourse starts. This is where the, um, oral communications are a very, very good thing. An orgasm during intercourse because is really more fun, but either way is fine. (Of course, what's best is one of each!) The trick is to stop the oral communications once the big O is imminent, and then move on to the other activities.
Oh, but girl -- I hear you on the 10 minutes or less thing. Just the thought of "hours" has me feeling pain. If you follow my plan and are close before the intercourse starts, you don't even need ten minutes. And trust me -- when you find a guy who has this all mastered, MARRY HIM!!!
Hey, by the way, PKTSU01 -- get back to studying, or I'm going to start asking you questions about contract formation!