Hi Ladies!
I'm going through informal recruitment this upcoming year at a small school in NJ, and I haven't heard anything about recs except on this site, and after searching on here, and via google, don't see anything about needing recs for my school specifically. However, I saw a post from a girl in, lets say, EFG that says her house requires recs, and that house is on my campus, though I know by her user name that she also goes to a huge school in the south.
Should I still try to get recs? If so, what is the most appropriate way of contacting alumnae chapters, without being rude? I have asked around and know only one Greek that is able to help me out. My town is not Greek at all, and I've asked every Greek I know if they are able to put me in contact with anyone in the houses on my campus (as I've said, I'm okay with one house, but I'd still need the other 3!) I'd be ENTIRELY willing to meet up with an alum to give her my resume and all and let her get to know me prior to deciding if she was willing to write me a rec (even if it is just an informational one!)
Thanks for any help!
