Paddle Problems!

[libby13]

I am having a problem with paddles and I searched to see if anyone had posted a similar question but couldn't find one. If this is a repeat, I apologize.

Anywayys, I bought 3 paddles at the greek shop today. I got a paddle to make for my big, one to make for myself, and one extra. This is probably going to sound really dumb but my boyfriend is in a fraternity and for some reason, I thought I could make one for him. (I'm a freshman so I'm new at Greek traditions.) Come to think of it, I don't know what I thought I'd do with it. I mean, I can't very well make him one in his fraternity colors and letters, I don't think. Even as a gift, I doubt I'd be allowed to fashion a paddle using his fraternity symbols because I'm not in the fraternity.

He seems to think I can make him a sorority one for him. Like I could paint it in my sorority's colors and give it to him. I've seen girls make paddles for their mothers but never for boyfriends ): Can that be done? This probably is a stupid question, but I just wasn't thinking when I bought the paddle and now I don't know what to do with an extra one! I'm already making my big and I one. Could I maybe make one for another girl in the house or are paddles really only for bigs/littles to give to each other?

Sorry for all the questions!