Just have to breathe....

[angel_kak]

Well here I am writing on a Sat night too tired to go out and so much work to do that I'm completely procrastinating with that I'm driving myself crazy...I graduate in a few weeks and I'm not sure if I'm ready for the real world...

Here goes nothing...moving far from home...by myself(how pathetic is this) Am I never going to meet someone? Please tell me their are still some good single guys out there...because all I seem to find these days are guys with girlfriends and they obviously aren't the ones I would want if they are hitting on me, too. I feel like I'm going to be 90 years old before I find the right person for me...I know I can be picky but I'm sorry I am not one to waste my time if I think in the beginning there is nothing there. I guess i'm too independent for that... Just had to breathe....Sorry for rambling...

I wish I could start over again at this point in my life and go back to my freshman year...much less worries at that point..This grown up stuff is for the birds!

[Miami1839]

First I want to say I'm sorry that you feel this way. I know things seem hectic right now but there are a lot of girls/guys who are or were in your shoes. Your not alone. Just take everything as it comes. Eventually the right guy will find you. I wouldnt start thinking about it seriously until you hit your thirties.

[PKTSU01]

Chill out babe. Listen up, i dealt with this BIG TIME leading up to graduation. I wasn't sure about my future, my fraternity, which was my life wouldn't be anymore, irealized there were people I cared about who I would most likely never see again. And from a personal standpoint I always felt that I'd meet the girl I would end up with in college. Well, needless to say, that didn't happen and I started to freak. I'm realizing though that at this point, you've got to look out for number 1, because this is where you will determine in what direction your life will go. If your heart is going to be won by someone, it's going to happen, whether you plan on it or not. And, if my past has been any indication, the people you love the most aren't the ones you run into in the bars or the ones you look for, they're the ones that fate tosses at you, as corny as that may sound. And yeah, there are lots of good single guys out there. Hell, there are more than a few on this site I'm sure, and we only represent a tiny fraction of this world!
So, what I'm saying is, don't sweat it, love will find you when you least expect it, that's just the way it goes.

[volgirl2376]

angel_kak.. I understand where you are, and how scary and unsure things might look right now. I am single too, and the only way to survive it is to have a sense of humor about it. Maybe my recent experiences will make you feel better about your situation: a guy threw up on the phone with me, blind date who pulled out a flask in the movie theater and passed out (yes I left him there), there have been guys after one night stands, married perverted guys, unemployed babys daddy guys, a guy who stole my panties...maybe that fits under perverts too...oh yeah how could I forget the B.O. guy...shew! It wasnt like "sniff sniff...is that B.O.or....?"..it was like "Holy lord, that guy has B.O. like he has been playing raquetball for 5 days without taking a shower".
Because I have to laugh to keep from crying...I do hope and pray that someday I will meet someone normal. If we dont, I will save you a seat at the convent.

[PKTSU01]

See, this is just plain sad and F*$)D up. You girls sound great to me, so I'm sorry to hear of all the assholes you've had to deal with. Just another example of how life isn't fair i guess.

[angel_kak]

Thanks guys...it is nice to know that you have someone to vent to on here and someone who will listen...

PKTSU01 - I wish everyone thought you do...you really know how to make a girl feel better!

volgirl2376
---I have had half of the screwed up relationships as you have had...and your right we'll meet someone someday...or the space in the convent i guess is there (hey, at least we will have company)

and as I read more of these I wonder what was going on in my head most of the time. I read the ideal man...and i wonder b/c sometimes you think you live you learn but I have done the same thing so many time I wonder when the you learn starts....

oh geez...here i go again...but it is true...maybe i'm glad i'm graduating b/c i don't know how much more college i can take...i'm getting to old for this! lol

kirsten