Hi!

[xoStarr]

Hi! I'm xoStarr

I went through recruitment last year and signed a pref card but didn't stay with the sorority I received a bid for (never was initiated, I literally declined the same day I received the bid). Didn't mean to take someone's spot or anything along those lines, I just didn't know what I was doing and was misinformed when signing the pref card. (I knew I didn't want a bid from XYZ but my RC told me to write it down anyways as my second choice)

Anyways I signed up for fall recruitment again (I'm a sophomore now) along with a friend who has never gone through it. However ZTA is colonizing at my campus this fall, so I'm currently trying to decide if I should go through formal recruitment again and try to find a home there or just try for ZTA, or both! Hoping that the lovely ladies on this form will help me along the way

[33girl]

Originally Posted by xoStarr

Hi! I'm xoStarr

I went through recruitment last year and signed a pref card but didn't stay with the sorority I received a bid for (never was initiated, I literally declined the same day I received the bid). Didn't mean to take someone's spot or anything along those lines, I just didn't know what I was doing and was misinformed when signing the pref card. (I knew I didn't want a bid from XYZ but my RC told me to write it down anyways as my second choice)

If you declined the day you received the bid, they were probably able to offer a bid to someone else the same day or the same week at the very latest. Don't worry about it.