leaving a fraternity and joining another one
I'm starting this thread because a good friend of mine is asking me for advice but I really dont know what to tell him. To make a long story short his sister was almost raped by one of his brothers at a party they had. He wanted to protect the chapter but on the other hand he had his family. The chapter kicked the brother out but the house was divided over the matter. His parents were going to press charges but he said he would leave the fraternity. He pretty much doesnt believe in any of it anymore and has lost all respect for the chapter and nationals. He has since transferred to a new college and is thinking about rushing at a different fraternity should he do this?? I mean once you are a brother its for life but in the other hand his situation was really fucked up I really dont know what I would do in his shoes. Has anyone ever done this before and be honest or what the hell should I tell him.
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