question to members of Phi Beta Sigma

Tre 1 · #1 10-15-2010, 11:40 PM

Most people on my campus knew that at one time I had an interest in Kappa, but that didn't work out for me. All of the greeks have a winter interest meeting every year at my school, and I plan on attending the Phi Beta Sigma interest meeting. The question I have is if they know that at one time I had an interest in another glo, would that make it more difficult for me to get picked up?

aephi alum · #2 10-15-2010, 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Tre 1

Most people on my campus knew that at one time I had an interest in Kappa, but that didn't work out for me. All of the greeks have a winter interest meeting every year at my school, and I plan on attending the Phi Beta Sigma interest meeting. The question I have is if they know that at one time I had an interest in another glo, would that make it more difficult for me to get picked up?

QFP

Tre 1 · #3 10-16-2010, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by aephi alum

QFP

What does QFP mean?

victoriana · #4 10-16-2010, 12:36 AM

quoted for posterity.

Tre 1 · #5 10-16-2010, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by victoriana

quoted for posterity.

Why would somebody want to quote me for posterity?

Drolefille · #6 10-16-2010, 01:05 AM

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Why would somebody want to quote me for posterity?

Because you have an amusing tendency to put your foot* in your mouth. I wonder if the Phi Beta Sigma guys are dating anyone cute for you to "WHOOPS"

*not just your foot

Tre 1 · #7 10-16-2010, 01:13 AM

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Because you have an amusing tendency to put your foot* in your mouth. I wonder if the Phi Beta Sigma guys are dating anyone cute for you to "WHOOPS"

*not just your foot

I already said that I was wrong for that. The Kappa who was with that girl already dealt with me on it.

Drolefille · #8 10-16-2010, 01:27 AM

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I already said that I was wrong for that. The Kappa who was with that girl already dealt with me on it.

Yeah kind of, you still blamed it on it "just happening." However the point remains, you put it out there. I, personally, find it endlessly amusing. You, having expressed interest in Kappa, should know better than to make this post. That only adds to the amusement.

Tre 1 · #9 10-16-2010, 01:33 AM

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Yeah kind of, you still blamed it on it "just happening." However the point remains, you put it out there. I, personally, find it endlessly amusing. You, having expressed interest in Kappa, should know better than to make this post. That only adds to the amusement.

You've never been in the heat of the moment kind of situation? If I could take it back I would, but I can't. There's no need to keep bringing something up that I can't change. I was interested in Kappa, but I made a mistake and got cut. I feel that since I know more Sigmas that I would have a better opportunity with them. I'm really good friends with two of the Sigmas at my school. I'm just not sure the other members would approve of me joining since I took an interest in Kappa.

Drolefille · #10 10-16-2010, 01:47 AM

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You've never been in the heat of the moment kind of situation? If I could take it back I would, but I can't. There's no need to keep bringing something up that I can't change. I was interested in Kappa, but I made a mistake and got cut. I feel that since I know more Sigmas that I would have a better opportunity with them. I'm really good friends with two of the Sigmas at my school. I'm just not sure the other members would approve of me joining since I took an interest in Kappa.

SO ASK THE SIGMAS YOU KNOW.

And no, I've never slept with someone else's partner in some accidental comedy of errors and then come to a website to ask what to do about it.

Matsimela · #11 10-16-2010, 02:06 AM

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I was interested in Kappa, but I made a mistake and got cut.

Sooooo...the only reason you are interested in Phi Beta Sigma is because the Kappas dont want you? That alone would be enough reason for me to tell you to kick rocks. Forget the fact that im sure news has probably traveled around ur campus about ur *ahem* accidental indiscretion.

rhoyaltempest · #12 10-16-2010, 02:35 AM

The fact that you have the nerve to come back here with this after the whole "oops I fell inside a Kappa's girl by mistake and I fear it might hurt my chances of becoming a member" debacle on here, is beyond hilarious. OMG!

Tre 1 · #13 10-16-2010, 02:52 AM

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SO ASK THE SIGMAS YOU KNOW.

And no, I've never slept with someone else's partner in some accidental comedy of errors and then come to a website to ask what to do about it.

I already talked to them long before I tried to go Kappa. They wanted me to pledge Sigma, but at the time, my heart was set on Kappa. The two members I know said they would vote me in, but they don't know about the other members. I have also seen people take an interest in another organization and then decide to do something else. I'm just trying to get feedback from some of the Sigmas.

You probably don't date a lot. No offense.

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Sooooo...the only reason you are interested in Phi Beta Sigma is because the Kappas dont want you? That alone would be enough reason for me to tell you to kick rocks. Forget the fact that im sure news has probably traveled around ur campus about ur *ahem* accidental indiscretion.

No, that's not the only reason. Some people know about it, but most have let it go.

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The fact that you have the nerve to come back here with this after the whole "oops I fell inside a Kappa's girl by mistake and I fear it might hurt my chances of becoming a member" debacle on here, is beyond hilarious. OMG!

Everybody gets tempted by an attractive girl or guy. I didn't just fall inside a Kappa's girl. Get real. I made a mistake. If I could take it back I would. That's not what this thread is about. I'm asking the Sigmas their opinion, you are a Sigma Gamma Rho, not a member of Phi Beta Sigma.

Jill1228 · #14 10-16-2010, 09:31 AM

What does not dating a lot have to do with it?

Whether you date a lot or date a little, you don't shag someone else's partner

Ask the Sigmas--if it's the same campus, word might get around. They might be privy to the fact that you fucked up and did the headboard shuffle with a Kappa's girl...

Drolefille · #15 10-16-2010, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Tre 1

I already talked to them long before I tried to go Kappa. They wanted me to pledge Sigma, but at the time, my heart was set on Kappa. The two members I know said they would vote me in, but they don't know about the other members. I have also seen people take an interest in another organization and then decide to do something else. I'm just trying to get feedback from some of the Sigmas.

You probably don't date a lot. No offense.

No, that's not the only reason. Some people know about it, but most have let it go.

Everybody gets tempted by an attractive girl or guy. I didn't just fall inside a Kappa's girl. Get real. I made a mistake. If I could take it back I would. That's not what this thread is about. I'm asking the Sigmas their opinion, you are a Sigma Gamma Rho, not a member of Phi Beta Sigma.

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What does not dating a lot have to do with it?

Whether you date a lot or date a little, you don't shag someone else's partner

Ask the Sigmas--if it's the same campus, word might get around. They might be privy to the fact that you fucked up and did the headboard shuffle with a Kappa's girl...

QFP even though he's banned.

You don't shag someone else's partner without it being an honest, open relationship where all involved are cool with it.

And if you do have sex with someone else's partner (who is not in an open and honest poly relationship) you own up instead of trying to 'save' your bid to a fraternity that already knew exactly what happened anyway.

Or you ask the internets.