Hi! my name is cmonique...a few weeks ago I found out that my boyfriend of 4 years and fiance of 1 year posted a personal ad via the internet... The title of his ad was "friends before anything." It all happened when I was on his computer one night and across the screen came a response message from aol's love response service. The girl was saying how she hoped he was still interested and about how sexy she was and blah, blah, blah. When I brought it to his attention he lied and said he didn't do it... I even told him "if you were playing around and was just curious, let me know, don't lie"...still he lied...Ladies we argued and argued and argued until we couldn't argue anymore and this fool even had the b***s to accuse ME of not trusting him. After we argued for like an hour I left his house and went home and printed the ad out myself. When I called to tell him that I found the ad and printed it out for myself, his line was busy...UH-OH you know what that means, this fool was online trying to delete his message, RIGHT?....RIGHT...Finally, I emailed him, cause I knew he was online, and called him all kinds of things. Then he called me back and tried to apologize, but as far as I was concerned this dingbat could kick mud for all I cared. Now I'm having a problem trusting him in the way I did before...What's your opinion ladies???
What would you do if your man of 4 years posted a personal ad?
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