Is every man a man?

[AlphaJak]

Recently, one of my brothers transferred to another University where there is a Lambda Chi chapter. The chapter there voted not to let him join, because of his image was different than theirs. As a few of the brothers did accept him, and began to hang out with him. It became clear why he was not accepted into the chapter there. It was because of his sexual orientation. I go to a liberal arts college, and I’m a theatre major. I’m also from the south. Throughout my life I’ve dealt with homosexuals. I see how we southerners can view Homosexuals. I’ve come to the conclusion that they are (contrary to popular belief) human beings. So why can’t they be brothers? I had hoped that ignorance would not be able to travel within our bond. So, is every man truly a man? My first response to them not accepting my brother wasn’t one of surprise. Chapters are different all across the nation, and this is a good thing. If you looked at my chapter we cover the entire spectrum of majors, races, religions and sexual orientations. I know that each Zeta tries to put forth the image they see fit. As previously stated, I understand why they would not want Josh to join their chapter. What bothers me is the absolute cold shoulder he was given by people, MEN, that are supposed to be his brothers. Terms like “faggot” were used to describe him. We see brothers from different places all the time, and one thing I especially like to say to out younger members is, “they are who they are, but they’re still a brother.” Why isn’t this more accepted in the 21st century? Am I alone in thinking that the treatment of my brother is appalling? Have a missed the point of the motto which made me join this Fraternity?