So my girl mentions that she's thinking about pledging AKA.

RealTalk · #1 10-22-2008, 07:45 PM

We've been together for a while so we tell each other any and everything. So the other night she brings this up to me. I can't say I agree or disagree with her decision to consider joining a sorority. I'd say I'm indifferent about the whole thing really. I have good friends that are in Fraternities and needless to say I've heard some things about these organizations and their antics.

So as the boyfriend, what should I expect from this situation? What did your boyfriends have to put up with when you were on line? Of course this is hypothetically speaking in my case because nothing is set. I'm just trying to get a better understanding about this.

RealTalk · #2 10-22-2008, 08:10 PM

???

#3 10-22-2008, 08:18 PM

Impatient to get an answer, are we?

You might as well tell the AKAs your girlfriend's name and campus.

RealTalk · #4 10-22-2008, 08:55 PM

SMH

Senusret I · #5 10-22-2008, 09:06 PM

That's annoying.

Just be patient and wait for an answer, if any AKAs choose to answer. It's not like they have to, you know.

RedefinedDiva · #6 10-22-2008, 09:31 PM

If you have friends in fraternities, I dare go out on a limp and suspect that they may have girlfriends in sororities. Therefore, my best suggestion would be to ask them. Oh yeah, THIS might help as well.

RealTalk · #7 10-22-2008, 10:40 PM

Well the whole response from my question is making me feel uncertain about the whole situation.

Senusret I · #8 10-22-2008, 10:42 PM

Your question cannot be answered here is the answer to your question.

KSUViolet06 · #9 10-22-2008, 11:02 PM

AKAs (or any of the other NPHC sororities) don't answer any membership-related questions in their forums. This includes "what can I expect" and "what did you put up with."

Yay. Question answered.

RealTalk · #10 10-22-2008, 11:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I

Your question cannot be answered here is the answer to your question.

Where can it be answered then?

I'm not even asking what is generally done during the process. I'm asking about myself. I'm sure people have gone through it and have had a serious boyfriend on here.

RealTalk · #11 10-22-2008, 11:07 PM

"So as the boyfriend, what should I expect from this situation?"

That was what I asked. Not what can she expect.

RedefinedDiva · #12 10-23-2008, 12:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RealTalk

"So as the boyfriend, what should I expect from this situation?"

Regarding THIS situation, you can EXPECT to receive the answers you have already gotten. You should EXPECT exactly what you get. It's far too bad if these answers do not meet your standards.

That. is. all.

RealTalk · #13 10-23-2008, 12:24 AM

LOL @ this thread. If it's that offensive and embarrassing that you can't comment then I'm actually disappointed that my girl wants to be associated with it.

RealTalk · #14 10-23-2008, 12:54 AM

If my girl decides to go through this, I'm going to tell her upfront that if she feels like she can't tell me something (like the people on this site) due to it damaging our relationship that she needs to think about that long and hard.

Senusret I · #15 10-23-2008, 07:10 AM

Why do you feel entitled to answers from strangers? You're wack and insecure.