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Old 01-28-2008, 03:08 AM
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Post I'm in need of some advice!

Ah it's been soooo long since I've been on here but I'm looking for some advice and I know ya'll give some great tips so....

...here it goes...I need some help on what to do about my status with someone that I recently met. Long story short, I'm working in the sports marketing profession and he's roughly 8 hours away from me...which totally stinks, but I think...actually..I KNOW there is something there...

He's a 3rd year orthopedic surgery med student...it was definitely unexpected and really random how we met. At a wedding oddly enough...the two token Jews there (I swear it's fate!!). The wedding was between mutual friends in the town where I am currently living in. The good part about him being far away is that he goes to school where I am from originally, and where my family and friends still live, which makes it much easier to go home, and I can hit two birds with one stone, seeing him and family.. That was about a month ago...after we met, we spent the entire rest of the weekend together. He's amazing and I definitely could see myself with him someday. Each day I learn more and more about him and can't stop thinking about him.

Like I said, it's been almost a month and I'm headed up there this coming weekend to spend time with him. I'm nervous about it though because I'm going to be meeting his friends and all that. He's taking me out to dinner so t'll be like an actual date, though it doesn't seem like it is as often as we talk. Since we've met, we've talked every day sometimes for hours on the phone, we text, email, AIM, webcam, all that stuff...which is pretty awesome, considering that I know how busy he is. Next month he's starting oncology rotations so I won't be able to see him which is why I'm going up this weekend to do it and he knows this. I have no question about him being just as interested, but I know how insane these next few years with his school are going to be and I just want to keep a potential open for maybe thinking about a long distance relationship with him. I just want to support him and make him happy. I know he's a good guy and I can deal with him not being around because he's in school and motivated and he's worth the sacrifice...I feel like even if I was closer, he still wouldn't be seeing me as much anyway, so I feel like this is worth the risk...advice on what to do this weekend? Or even in general? I want to bring it up, but not sound like I'm pressuring him or forcing the topic just because we're seeing each other face to face. Any tips would be great, Thanks!
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