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Old 07-31-2006, 09:47 AM
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Gift Etiquette

A girl who I was friends with in high school but sort of lost touch with in college (we are now more acquaintances than good friends) invited me to her birthday party. Am I supposed to bring her a gift? It's in a bar, so is it better if I just buy her some drinks or shots? I'm assuming she wouldn't want anything big that she'd have to carry?
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Old 07-31-2006, 10:25 AM
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I'd say just buy her some drinks. If you more so acquaintances, that'd probably be the best way to go.
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Old 07-31-2006, 03:04 PM
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You could bring a card and if you know anything about where she shops or things she likes you could get her a gift card?
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Old 07-31-2006, 03:44 PM
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buy her some booze-a-palooza
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Old 07-31-2006, 04:02 PM
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Just buy her a drink.
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Old 07-31-2006, 07:19 PM
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Buying her a drink works, but if you think that the other guests might bring gifts you could always get her a card and write something in it like "let's do lunch on me and catch up soon".
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Old 07-31-2006, 08:37 PM
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Is the party here in NYC? The only time I've bought gifts is for 'big' birthdays like a 25th or 30th. In general if it's at a bar I don't brings a gift bc I'll buy the birthdaygal a drink or give her a gift at a later time. Too much stuff gets lost/left/stolen from bars!
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Old 07-31-2006, 08:53 PM
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Yes it is. Thanks for making this easier for me. I haven't talked to her in like 3 years outside of facebook so I wouldn't even know what to get her! Can't go wrong with a nice pomegranate martini though.
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Old 07-31-2006, 10:52 PM
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It's fairly common around here to get a card with like $10 worth of scratch off lottery tickets in it.
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Old 08-01-2006, 09:05 AM
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Yes it is. Thanks for making this easier for me. I haven't talked to her in like 3 years outside of facebook so I wouldn't even know what to get her! Can't go wrong with a nice pomegranate martini though.
Ohhhh pomegranate martinis!! Those drinks are delish. Had one at the W Union Square Friday. Enjoy the party & reconnecting with your friend.
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