ZPBS love...I have a problem....

[Fashionista1920]

I POSTED THIS ON THE SIGMA'S MESSAGE BOARD AS WELL...


I got a lil' misty when I read Soror's post under "Zeta Phi Beta Sigma love" [on the sigma's message board] I was just
overpowered at the love i saw on a neighboring campus, and that contributed to my decision (along with the obvious reasons), but sadly I have yet to feel the power behind the bond...for reasons unbeknownst to me, I was not blessed with Sigma sandZ on my campus. And the ones who were already Sigmas (not that many) either were so used to not having Zetas around that they forgot how to love us, or they were trying to get in our pants.

I get love from blue when I travel, which is not often, but it's not the same cuz if I am somewhere where there is alot of frat, chances are there are a lot of sorors too, so i feel lost in the shuffle. And frat at this neighboring campus seem uninterested (giving "birth control" hugs) or "anxious", to put it mildly.

Where are those big brothers that are supposed to have my back? I would give my left pinky toe to have a good old fashioned platonic male/female relationship with frat.

I don't know if i'm asking a question so much as I am just expressing a concern, (cuz there's really nothing that can be done, i feel), but that's just my $19.20 worth about that...HOLLA!



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I look DAMN good in red, but I prefer BLUE...Z-PHI!

[Royalty]

Well, Soror, that comes with the territory. I've been "felt up" by frat and I just take it as a man with weak game, which is how I view it whenever a man does something like that. But on the same tip, I cannot deny that when I see an attractive man who also happens to be frat I use the bond to get an extra tight hug (smile). I guess it's a part of human nature. But overall, most frat treat me like a sister who needs to be protected from all other men. So don't take it to heart, soror. In spite of some who take advantage of the ZPBS bond, most Sigmas understand the true purpose of our constitutional bond.

[Texas_Dove]

Well spoken Soror!!!

Originally posted by Royalty:
Well, Soror, that comes with the territory. I've been "felt up" by frat and I just take it as a man with weak game, which is how I view it whenever a man does something like that. But on the same tip, I cannot deny that when I see an attractive man who also happens to be frat I use the bond to get an extra tight hug (smile). I guess it's a part of human nature. But overall, most frat treat me like a sister who needs to be protected from all other men. So don't take it to heart, soror. In spite of some who take advantage of the ZPBS bond, most Sigmas understand the true purpose of our constitutional bond.