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new here...rush/hazing question
hi, i'm new to greekchat and i'm interested in rushing the AEPhi chapter on my campus for the spring semester (informal recruitment).
i hope all goes well and that i get a bid to AEPhi but i'm terrified (i was at a different school last year, pledged a sorority and got hazed to the point that i felt sick every day and didn't even want to leave my dorm room) i still want to be a part of a sisterhood but i'm still a little wary after what happened before...
i'm not going to ask details of the new member program bc that that's just rude (repeat: i DON'T want to know sorority secrets!!! repeat repeat repeat!!!), and if i get a bid i'll learn what it's all about..but maybe you girls could give me some advice about how not to end up in a really scary situation again. i just feel like i did something wrong the first time around and maybe you all would know some things to look out for (having rushed too, or possible been recruitment counselors).
basically, i agree with everything AEPhi stands for (i've been researching them like crazy) and i really want to be a part of it--i'm just sooo nervous!!!
also, if anyone has an estimate of what i could probably anticipate to pay in dues (general) that would be awesome--i'm paying for college myself and i want to make sure i could manage the financial commitment.
please help me out if you can. i'd appreciate it so much!
i'm sorry if this offended anyone--i really really didn't mean it to be. i hope you can try to see where i'm coming from and not be pissed...
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