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Old 04-27-2005, 11:45 AM
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Reference Question

A few of you know what happened to me a few weeks ago but here is the shortened version:

I'm moving to Atlanta at the end of this week. It's a decision I've been pondering over for a few months but made a final decision around mid-March. Out of kindness (and now I realize my own stupidity), I gave the head manager my notice to resign back in March; I gave him a month and half notice when I only had to give 2 weeks. My reasoning was that I wanted to help him find my replacement.

My 3 other managers wished me well and were sad to hear about my resignation. The main manager turned into a jerk. This is a guy that forced a co-worker of mine last year into early retirement and laid off another guy out of the blue who had 3 children. He's a big gossiper and passes judgements on his employees based on their religious or political beliefs. He has been quoted numerous times as saying women do not belong in the work force.

Anyway, about 3 weeks after giving my notice, the main manager called me into office. He let me know that he was letting me go that day. I had heard from other people that this is common practice; many employers will let their employees go when they give notice- one of my sorority sisters had this happen to her last month. At first, he cited the reasons for my dismissal as being that he was afraid that my decision might influence others to leave, he was afraid of me becoming unproductive, there was no work for me, and they didn't have the money to pay me. But, a little while later in the conversation, he proceeded to insult me and tell me that I wasn't doing the work I was supposed to me doing and that I had no drive. Not true but that's his opinion. This is the main manager who was quoted the other month as telling another manager of mine that I was an asset to the company and very valuable. My belief is that this main manager became upset that I was leaving the company and basically was trying to find ways to sabotage me out of spite considering he had no problem with me until I put in my resignation.

I applied for unemployment and when the claims guy called my old boss, my old boss said that the reason I was let go was because I was "unproductive and had a bad attitude". He didn't mention any of the initial reasons for my dismissal which were money, no work, etc. His reasons are absolutely not true considering that a) I was working on a ton of projects up until he let me go and b) all the other managers and my co-workers liked me so obviously he was the only one who thought I had a 'bad attitude'. Furthermore, the whole 'bad attitude' thing was never discussed when he let me go; he made no mention that he felt this way about me.

So, after all that, I have a question. I will be going on interviews when I get to Atlanta and I'm sure the prospective employers will ask for references. Naturally, I will not use the mean boss as a reference and instead I will use the other managers who have already said they would give a "glowing reference". Still, I fear that this mean boss will try every way to tarnish my reputation and slander me to potential employers. When background checks are done, do future employers or background check agencies call specifically the references you have listed or can they find out that mean boss is a manager also and contact him? It is also my understanding that there is a fine line between former employer giving a poor reference and slander. If my mean boss were to basically insult me and make false accusations to a potential employer, would this count as slander?
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Old 04-27-2005, 12:02 PM
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Re: Reference Question

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When background checks are done, do future employers or background check agencies call specifically the references you have listed or can they find out that mean boss is a manager also and contact him? It is also my understanding that there is a fine line between former employer giving a poor reference and slander. If my mean boss were to basically insult me and make false accusations to a potential employer, would this count as slander?
When I do reference checks, I ask for the person listed on the application and no one else. I'm pretty sure this is common practice.

I don't know if the company has a policy about reference checks, but many do, and they state that only certain information (such as position held and dates employed) can be given out. You may want to look into that...you might not even have a problem. Or it's possible that policy states all reference checks must go through HR, in which case they won't talk to Mean Boss either.

Finally, depending on what is said you may have a case for defamation.

If you directly reported to all 4 of the managers, then just don't make mention of Mean Boss on your application. If for some reason a question is raised about Mean Boss, be tactful and vague, but don't lie about anything. Just say you two didn't see eye to eye on a lot of issues or something to that effect.
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Old 04-27-2005, 12:11 PM
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You should also note that when you apply for unemployment insurance the employer doesn't have to pay if they can show you were fired "for cause." So they have an interest in saying you were a lousy employee in the hopes that they and their insurer won't have to pay (and consequently their premiums won't go up). Since, as you mentioned, they are low on money, he may have told the claims guy all that stuff for that purpose. While I think it's a lousy thing to do, that should give you a better idea of the context of what was going on.
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Old 04-28-2005, 09:55 AM
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Re: Re: Reference Question

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When I do reference checks, I ask for the person listed on the application and no one else. I'm pretty sure this is common practice.

I don't know if the company has a policy about reference checks, but many do, and they state that only certain information (such as position held and dates employed) can be given out. You may want to look into that...you might not even have a problem. Or it's possible that policy states all reference checks must go through HR, in which case they won't talk to Mean Boss either.
Thanks. That made me feel better. My main concern was mean boss somehow becoming involved in the reference process.

My company, unfortunately, does not have a policy on reference checks. A few of the companies I've worked for in the past do have that policy (where they'll only give out the employment dates) but this one doesn't. I may also just include the HR department's phone number on my application because I have a feeling they'll be a little bit more professional about my employment info then mean boss!
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Old 04-29-2005, 05:35 PM
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slander (and/or libel) is defamation. I think that what your manager has been doing can be considered slander. Of course, if your manager was to write soemthing down to your future employer (or even say something) that was even a slightly FALSE, then yes that could be considered either slander or libel. Obviously, this man is going to try any way to make you look bad, so if you have proof that he says these false things that defame your character, then just sue his pants off!! lol
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