Greeks help...what would you do?

[norcalKAO]

Tricky but simple, if you had the opportunity to help someone, who in the past you had conflict with, and the situation would probably be better if you never spoke to each other again, BUT you know that by telling them something your giving them a heads up on something that will not only help them, but others, before you graduate...would you?

Nichole

[navane]

Firstly, I think you probably meant to post this in chit chat?


At any rate, I have to tell you that your post makes absolutely no sense. If you're seeking advice, you need to be a LOT more specific than "so I have this friend who was talking to someone about this thing that we need to fix or not but if we don't the person may not have fixed that thing my friend knew about in the first place." Can you see how your post doesn't tell us anything about the situation?

Really, I was following you up until the last paragraph. All I can say is that if you and someone else have a problem with one another, and you feel sufficiently uncomfortable about leaving it unresolved before your graduation, then perhaps you should try to go to that person and bury the hatchet. Leave everyone else out of it.... your previous "helpers" obviously didn't help that much. Talk it out and, if you get rejected, then you can go away knowing you gave it your best effort.

As for the rest of it, I can't make heads or tails of your situation.


.....Kelly

[Coramoor]

Depends on the situation.

Even if I don't like the guy, and he is a brother, I would do everything in my power to see him make it. If he was not a brother and I didn't like him-fuck it. I have no reason to help him.

Even guys I don't think I would connect to otherwise are my bro's, and I would do what I could for them because I know they would do the same for me.

[omegamcgee]

I was in a situation kinda like this before (although your kinda vague, so I can't be too sure). I dated a guy in high school (he was a senior when I was a freshman) and then when we broke up, he started dating this girl I knew. Right before he graduated, she got drunk and told me that she had cheated on him with like 8 people, and the next day, when she was sober, she told me not to tell him. But I did. Since he thought I just wanted him back, he didn't listen. Well, he married her, and she cheated on him the entire time they were married. So they got divorced and now the whole situation is just a headache. So the point is that sometimes you can tell someone something, but they probably aren't going to listen to you, especially if you've had conflict. Good Luck though!