Black Women

Y'all are so MMM, MMM, fly.

There are so many positive things I can say about y'all. But I want you to tell me about you. There are the obvious things but what are some of your personality traits and other qualities that you feel men may overlook if they don't slow down and get to know the real you?

In other words....What are some things you feel men underappreciate in y'all?

[msn4med1975]

I may be generalizing but the big thing I think some men miss is even though I can be superwoman from 9-5 and support myself and all that jazz doesn't mean I want to be in charge of things with regards to a relationship. I've heard several of my male friends say that I would make my future husband feel unnecessary because I can pretty much do anything I want to on my own. The thing they miss is I really want a very traditional relationship, which doesn't mean I'm gonna be doing the Donna Reed thing but on some level I think I have to respect my husband as the head of our household and we'll work out our expectations of each other from that point. So I guess I said all that to say just cause we can do it all alone doesn't mean we WANT to do it all alone.