Passing Men Down The Line!

TX_AKAQT08 · #1 08-10-2000, 11:08 PM

CAN SOMEBODY HELP ME?

Why is it that Men feel that they CAN date Sorors in the same chapter, city or town? And the crazy thing about it is that they truly believe that we won't find out about it. (small world)... Let me know if you have or you know someone that has been in this situation and how did they handle it.

Thanks for your feedback in advance!

Professor · #2 08-11-2000, 09:20 AM

Sister, Sister, Sister,

One can date anyone he or she chooses as long as it is agreed upon. You know women talk and especially sorors. Why put the blame totally on the man.

AKA2D '91 · #3 08-11-2000, 09:25 AM

Wait Frat, not all women talk.

And nine times out of ten the women, DO NOT know and the man is out there with their soror or friend. Ususally it's the man out there bragging that he is "keeping it in the family."

But, if the woman/Soror knows...I have a real big problem with that!

LadyAKA · #4 08-11-2000, 10:26 AM

Wait I fail to see the problem here, is it a problem because you are Sorors/friends or just because he happened to be seeing another Soror in the chapter ... Love happens must we know question Chapter, City and State before we ask for a date ??
Just questions sorors - just questions??
Now if he is being a dog, it is not only his fault it is your fault, women need to open their eyes you are as much to blame as he is .... I might have said that wrong but I hope you'll get the gist of it....

Sisterly

[This message has been edited by LadyAKA (edited August 11, 2000).]

TX_AKAQT08 · #5 08-12-2000, 03:03 PM

Lady AKA, I don't see how it's the woman's fault, if a man is dating Sorors or Friends that he knows know each other. Some women talk about who their dating and others don't. I see that this is beginning to be a big problem with men and even woman trying to "keep it in the family" as someone has expressed earlier.

My main focus was on men or women that purposly date individuals that know each other. This is sick and I don't understand "what's really going on"!

LadyAKA · #6 08-12-2000, 08:44 PM

I guess it is the mentality, personality and maturing of the people you (NOT YOU PER SE) date. The saying is if you lie down with dogs you will get flees, or at least you are
bound to catch something. So, again I don’t see the problem ... if you and your mate have open, honest communication then problems like this should not occur. And I am not trying to put the fault all on the women; but if the woman felt comfortable with the man
and if the relationship is serious or moving towards serious then one should not be afraid
to question the man, his values and his morals ... I see why it is a problem, with the mentality of some, but I still think it can be prevented. Now if you keep running into the same type of people/guys then maybe there is a different problem.