Is it Better to Know?

[o2bame]

A girlfriend of mine called me several weeks ago because she had suspicions that her boyfriend or 1yr was cheating on her. So she went into her "detective" mode and found out that he was secretly "talking to" another female over the internet in more than a "friendly" way (Go Figure). After she found out, she was furious and hearbroken, although, she decided not to tell him until he confessed. However, her boyfriend continues to love her unconditionally and shower her with gifts and etc and acts like he is doing nothing wrong. She asked me if she should tell him and end the 1 yr relationship of man that she really loves, or acts like she knows nothing and hopes that he would end his little internet affair.

So when a guy is cheating and you are in what you consider to be a wonderful relationship (married/nonmarried) is it better to know or not to know?

Or how about if the guy cheated and is no longer cheating should you know about the past even though it's over?
What does GC think? Holla back...


(Reminds me of the Book "The Other Women" by Eric jerome Dickey)