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Possible???
After reading some rush threads, and some experiences of my own, I actually think greek offices/panhell screw up one time too many. I remember when I rushed as a naive little freshmen, really really loving xyz, and they had to be all about me(I didn't know the signs then but I know now) I mean EVERY sister came and talked to me, they talked about us hanging out after, were telling me about where their formal would be, and asked me would they see me tomorrow. Well the next day I went to pick up my invites, nope......I was dissapointed, but never thought to ask about it, just figured it was fake.
Every day from day 1 my rho chi was all about me. I mean she would ask me what glo I thought she was in, would always hug me and talk to me.....(After rush I found out she was in the same sorority, xyz)
Two days after rush while walking in the food court, like 5 xyz's passed me by... I felt awkward so I didn't say anything...Like 5 secs later they came running back into the food court and asked if I had dropped out of rush..I was like no, I'm pledging zyx. Not thinking then, obviously they were wondering why I dropped them???? I woudl give anything to go back in tiome sometimes and just speak up.
From the other side...I know there are girls we have invited back and seemed to really want us and not come back, I always wonder about the mistakes..... In my campus the only person who goes through the invites is the pres and vp of panhel..They have like one hour... I mean it's time to get at least a computer system
Im curious, has anyone else ever wondered about situations like this?????
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