Boy Not Calling: Example

[James]

Part 1.
Its like last September and I go out to the local watering hole . . .

So I am sitting next to girl A talking to her and listening to her entire life story before realizing that she is dating the bartender . . or she thinks she is, he's just like whatever.

So across the bar I see this fine looking blonde thing . . . at this point I was 3 drafts and 3 shots into the night. and i notice that she is next to an acquaintance! Happy Happy Joy Joy thats half the battle right there!

She has looked over a few times so I make my approach (smoothly knocking some chairs over aong the way).

As I get closer I notice that certain parts of her anatomy are larger than they apeared from across the room. As a side note I have noticed that alcohol diminishes the effectiveness of my contact lenses.

So I am like ok, maybe 10-20 pounds over her ideal weight? About 5'6, natural blond hair (going by eyebrows) nice tan, skin could be a little better. Left ear is a milimeter off from the right, but she still ok.

Great personality, we are laughing, talking, flirting, and she did the whole walk away talk to another guy walk back thing also.

Didn't feel a hell of a lot of physical attraction until she let me smell the perfume on her neck . . .

So end of the night comes and I didn't ask for her number.

Part 2.
I am thinking the next day that I shoul have asked for it . . .
so I go back out to the same place and lo and behold our slightly overweight blonde with the nice personality is there.

So again we laugh talk and the end of the night comes by and I ask for her number, she gives it to me and watches me put it into my cell phone. Mental note: Never program cell phone in front of girl, because you lose all deniablity pertining to losing a number.
she gives me her itinerary for th next three days i.e. i won't be able to reach her until mid week, but she has a machine.

Interlude: I don't call. I thought about it, but I really wasn't that interested. Maybe if she had been more available for the first two days . . . Us guys don' have a notoriously long attention span, its why we are so evil with the remote control.

Part 3. Naturally I walk into that place a week or so later and see her sitting there with some friends. Mentally I'm like damn . . . but I really don't believe in being placed at a disadvantage by a feeling or someone else, so I put on my confident social faceand strolled right over. I opened with a: hey how are you doing? I just stopped by to have a drink and see if you were here.

So we talked for a while with her work friends there and one of them joking around was like this is her boyfriend, referring to one of the waiters. Which was awesome because if the subject of the phone call ever came up again i could claim drunken confusion and say I thought she had a boy friend and didn't want to poach on his territory. The perfect out.

Male strategy note: If you are ever confronted with a girl that talks to ou baout not calling her, just say that someone mentioned she had a boy friend. Easy.

End of story.

Moral: sometimes we don't call because we just don't want you. ITs nothing personal you just weren't that important and the mental connection you thought you had with us was primarily alcohol driven.

Thought I would share because e have been having a lot of boy/girl discussions. OBviously there are other reasons we won't call, but this might be the most common one.

Happy Hunting.