When I started college I knew nothing about sororities. I'm the first woman in my family to attend college and I had no clue what to really expect. I thought about rush, but then decided to wait. I ended up feeling really lonely that semster because my long time boyfriend who attends the same school had rushed a fraternity and now had less time to spend with me. I really wanted the sisterhood that a sorority brings. So a friend of mine told me about a service sorority that I could join. Well I rushed and the girls all really seemed nice and seemed to like each other. So I joined, but after rush I realized that not only did the girls not like each other they didn't like the sorority in general. There was no sisterhood what so ever.They now say that sisterhood isn't what they're about. Now I feel really cheated because although the service sorority isn't really recognized as a sorority(it's a service organization) And I can join a social sorority I feel like that people will think bad of me for joining the service sorority first. I feel like it will afect the other sororities opinion of me during rush. I really need some opinions on this I really don't know what to do???