Sister holding wedding a secret
I am a GC user under a new name in order to remain anonymous.
So I am watching the evening news and I see one of my sorority sisters and her what-I-thought-was fiancee. Apparently, he is now her husband. They recently found out that he would be sent to Afghanistan. They decided to rush the wedding so that they could marry before he left. They were engaged in March and we all thought we'd be there on her wedding day. We were there for her engagement. Many of us would have gone to the wedding; we would have rearranged our schedules to be there. It was a very special day for her, I am sure.
She has not told most of our sisters about the wedding. Granted, she does not have to, but she decided to tell the whole city via the evening news, but decided not to contact her sisters and tell them about the wedding. Because of this many of us are hurt. In fact, several of our sisters have talked to her on the phone since the wedding, but she still won't mention the wedding to them.
We do not know what to do, whether we should approach her or wait until she tells us. We do not know what to tell her, whether to congratulate her or not since it was a super-rushed wedding.
What would you all do/feel if you were in this situation?
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