So, my first grade daughter tells me when I get home from work today (through unmistakable gestures) that there is a first grade girl on her schoolbus that is performing oral sex on a couple boys (a kindegartener and a second grader), which was shocking enough....but then she also described to me them having anal sex!! These are K-2 kids and far beyond a "show me yours and I'll show you mine". My daughter was very specific that she was not involved (and looked me in the eye as she told me all this).
I got the names from my daughter and emailed her teacher, since it was after hours and the teacher will get it first thing in the morning. Another woman I talked to mentioned calling DSS, since obviously at least one of these children did NOT come up with this idea on their own.
I already had the good touch/bad touch, tell an adult, & sex talk, but I'm not sure what other "damage control" to do with her. She was very matter-of-fact when she told me, so it's hard to tell how much this affected her. Kindergarten, First & Second Graders....and we live in Suburbia's suburbs.