Oklahoma State's recruitment is fairly competitive. However, I would not describe it as anywhere near as competitive as LSU. I’m not as familiar with the University of Florida, so I cannot speak to that.
If she has a recommendation for each of the eleven (11) chapters, she should be fine as far as that is concerned. I wouldn’t worry too much about them being boilerplate as chapters often receive recommendations on a standard form from area Panhellenics. Being out-of-state should not hurt her either, although it sounds like she may have recently moved to Oklahoma. She should succeed or fail based on her qualifications, grades, and her interactions during recruitment.
As far as her father not being nearby, there are several shops that offer the ability to preorder gifts and flowers at different price points. They will deliver them on bid day to the chapter house (they get bid lists early). The ones I know of that offer this are Causley’s, Little Shop of Flowers, and Colonial Florist. The campus Panhellenic may be able to direct him to more.
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