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ex-boyfriends
I apologize if this has ever been discussed before. Im not very well versed on this site and how to search if a topic has been discussed.
I broke up with my ex of 4 years 5 months ago. We have not spoken a word to each other since the day we ended things. It was a relationship filled with constant cheating (on his end) and he utlimately left me for the woman he cheated on me with 2 years earlier. Well I was proud of the way I handled things with the breakup. While i had many tear filled nights and sadness, i was moving on with life, and following my own dreams again. I was able to accept what i did right and what i did wrong with the relationship and put it to rest.
Out of the blue today, my ex decided to e-mail me on the facebook. Now for anyone who uses facebook there is a picture attached to your name and when you see e-mails you can see the picture. So anyway, he has a picture of him kissing his new girlfriend (the girl he cheated on me with) and sent me a message saying, "Congrats on getting AKA, i just wanted to break the silence, hope we can be friends."
I know that that is supposed to be a nice message and if things had ended any other way, maybe the idea of us being friends would be okay. But not like this. he hurt me completely. And i find it incredibly bold to send me the message with a picture like that on there.
My question is, is it wrong that i don't want to e-mail him back.? Is it so wrong to ask that he just completely dissappear? I liked it better when we had no contact. Some things i think should just be left dead, instead of stirring up feelings i dont want to feel.
Sorry so long, just wanted some sorors (or anyone's) opinions.
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