De-bigging???
Hi,
I was wondering if anyone has had a situation like this before. Some of the girls in my chapter have gotten it in their heads that "de-bigging" is an option. It happened a few years ago when a sister decided her big was no longer her big because she had done something bad to another sister. Last year I made a HUGE mistake and betrayed my little sister, but rather than trying to work things out or even letting me explain, she decided that one of the other girls is now her new big. Our president and advisor just kind of let the situation be in both instances because, since bigs and littles aren't an "official" thing, there's nothing that can be done.
I was wondering if anyone else had this kind of problem before. It's really one of the most painful things I've ever experienced in AXiD.
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