You are Joan
Quirky, eccentric, tough and sexy-- you embody all of what a 'successful' woman should be. You're a good friend, but you tend to focus so much on others that you allow yourself to go neglected. In relationships you know what you want and you aren't afraid to tell your man! Some words of caution: try not to be too demanding, you might end up with nothing to keep you warm at night but your laundry list of requirements.