I would be happy if a relative of mine (particularly a daughter) chose to pursue the same goals as I do, if it's what she wants. The worst think I could imagine is if A.S.K. is something she (hypothetical daughter) pursued because she felt that mom did it, so she has to. I would think if the yearning is not sincere, a true sisterly bond couldn't form, and might even jeapordize the relationship already in place.
I think my chapter will be faced with the legacy question for the first time this fall - one of my Sister's younger sister is interested in pledging her candidacy. It'll be interesting to see how the sisters handle it!
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